Self confidence is hard for most people to develop. We all struggle with low self esteem at sometime or other. Here are some ways to increase your self confidence.
Self confidence is often hard to come by. Many people suffer from low self esteem. We are always much harder on ourselves than we are on others. We kick ourselves for seemingly small mistakes. We believe others are prettier or smarter or better than we are. Ironically, others can think that we are wonderful, but we cannot see ourselves that way. Low self esteem can be damaging and can inhibit our lives.
Fortunately, time and experience are good teachers. As we grow and mature physically, we usually grow and mature mentally, emotionally and spiritually, as well. We usually learn, out of want or necessity, to live with ourselves, then like ourselves, then love ourselves. And the truth is, that we cannot fully love another until we learn to love ourselves.
There are ways to increase your self confidence. Many may seem simple, practical or even trivial, but they are vital and effective tools, nonetheless.
1-think positive talk positive
2-pat yourself on the back, make a list of all your accomplishments
3-make a list of your good qualities, you will be surprised how many you have!
4-recognize small accomplishments
5-dont beat yourself up
6-do what you do best, then teach it to others
7-be thankful for what you have, it can be enlightening, humbling and make you feel blessed!
you can't please everyone,don't care what others think
8-it's only important what you and your God and spouse thinks
9-pamper yourself
10-get a makeover
11-lose weight
12-pray, getting closer to your maker, knowing who you are and what you believe will give you confidence and strength
13-help others,altruism is a true high
14-smile
15-when you look good and feel good physically you feel better mentally and feel better about yourself
16-eat healthy
17-exercise
18-destress, a little "me" time
19-learn something new, its a big self esteem booster
20-get your priorities straight
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